Why do people to live so tired

 Why do people to live so tired of each journey the world the modern
, especially those targeted cultural ideals who live every now and then feel tired, suffer from travel, it is difficult before the trip, like in stop, willing to sink. Why is this?
Some people say: life extension of his mind since the quiet, without seeking the spirit in the thing. It was a very lofty realm far away, I think in addition to the ancient sages saints reluctance case to case statement, if given the opportunity or ease the appropriate environment or favorable treatment, they may be willing to let go of an order.
let alone living in this world of us! As a result, the reality of each individual, must can not be avoided in the face of fraudulent claims to give them experience the life of love and hate, joy and sorrow, success and failure, gain and loss!
reason we tired, from themselves, from the environment.
its body , Women and more focused on his face and body, apparel and accessories; men pay more attention to their status and the future of grace and image. Women in general are emotional, spiritual, romantic; men are mostly rational, material, and realistic. but in reality, most women tend to worry about their appearance and easy old, size variable, not high-end clothing, accessories no taste; most of the men worried about their status is not always prominent, and the future uncertain, the grace, not nice, no effect on the image!
In fact, the roots of the old trade, often in vain tried eternal youth; lazy precipitation, more and more quality and quantity of the body as before; clothing, such as days of clouds generally unpredictable, never catch up with its stylish footsteps; expensive accessories and change, being only unattainable.
In fact, the weight moment, hot, only a handful of people, a very short time; the future is always tomorrow's weather, or sunny or rain, overtly or covertly, only God knows; grace due to temperature change, due to different angles; image is benevolent see benevolence and the wise see wisdom, but with the demeanor of the loss and when connected to the so-called also the timing. Not only that, we often can not change the environment, the environment may change often, so-called control now; can not predict tomorrow, but can hold today; not control the weather, but it can change the mood; not choose your face, but it can show a smile; not change the environment, but can change yourself; not change the facts, but can change attitudes; can not control others, but can control their own; can not control life, the sorrow, but the joy of belonging to their own; can not do everything well, but can be conscientious in everything; not extend the length of life, but life can determine the width.
Thus, whenever I feel frustrated, I would shouts and cry, from a calm rivers and lakes; whenever I feel pleasure, I will smile, the sun shines from this mood.
Thus, whenever I memory of the past, I will lay it blew whistles, recall that the good PASSING Love; when I face reality, I will enjoy Qingming slowly, enjoy the fleeting moments of beauty; Whenever I look forward to the future, I will plan carefully to adhere to, roam in the ideal sea journey in the dangerous shoals of reality, browse the endless beauty!
In fact, the reality is the reality, it is heartless, helpless; it true existence; ideal is ideal, it passionate, pleasure; it changing, gorgeous.
when we, are in real reality, heartless helpless, be sure to use the gorgeous and sentimental pleasure of changing the ideal dress themselves. Only in this way, we walked all the way, will enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way, to understand the colorful life!
In fact, children who travel in this world, mostly because he tied his own body, unable and unwilling to earn a by their own cocoon woven over time and eventually become mediocre white pupae, but not into the Fantasy of butterflies!